My Story

I've Been Living With Hearing Loss My Entire Life

Surgeries, Silly Putty, decades of nodding and pretending. At 33, everything changed. Here's the honest version.

I want to tell you something that most hearing aid websites won't tell you — because most of them are written by people who've never actually worn a hearing aid.

I'm Keath. I've had hearing loss since before I knew what hearing loss was. I've had more ear surgeries than I can count on one hand. I used to pack Silly Putty into my ears so I could swim. I spent decades nodding along in conversations I couldn't hear, volunteering for things I had no business volunteering for because I couldn't make out the words.

And at 33 years old, I drove home from an audiologist's office for the first time with hearing aids in — and heard cars passing me on the highway.

That's why I built this site. Not because I researched hearing aids. Because I've lived inside this problem my entire life.


It Started With a Spelling Test

I was in kindergarten. My teacher called my parents in for a conference — not because I was struggling, but because something strange had happened on a spelling test. I had spelled every single word correctly. The problem was, they weren't the words she had said out loud. They were different words entirely — words that sounded like what I thought I heard.

That was the moment my parents realized something was wrong. I had always had ear infections — constantly, from as far back as anyone could remember. Back then, the treatment was ear drops and hope. Nobody had connected the dots yet.

The ENT found it quickly: my eustachian tubes hadn't developed properly. They couldn't drain the way they were supposed to. Fluid was sitting behind my eardrums, muffling everything. The world I'd been hearing my whole life wasn't the world everyone else was hearing.

"I had spelled every word correctly. They just weren't the words she had said out loud."

The Years of Surgeries

What followed was years — genuinely years — of procedures. This is the condensed version:

Kindergarten
First set of ear tubes
Standard tympanostomy tubes to help drainage. They worked — until they fell out about a year later, and everything went back to how it was. Back in for another set. This happened multiple times.
Elementary School
Reconstructive inner ear surgery
The repeated infections and fluid buildup had started affecting the small bones inside my ear. I had reconstructive surgery on the inner ear bones — ossiculoplasty. Then permanent tubes placed, which were supposed to last around three years.
Still Growing Up
Tonsils, adenoids, and more tubes
The tonsils and adenoids came out — both connected to the chronic infection cycle. More tubes placed. By this point I was in high school and honestly just tired of the whole thing. You get to a point where you just want to live your life.
The Whole Time
Swimming with Silly Putty
I grew up around pools and lakes. Swimming was part of life. The problem was that water in my ears — with tubes in — meant infections and a doctor's visit to get them cleaned out. My mom's solution, before silicone ear plugs existed: Silly Putty. Packed into my ears before every swim. It worked well enough that even my doctor said it was a good idea. I went in once a month in the summers to get things cleaned out. That was just normal life.
Early Adulthood
A few good years
The permanent tubes placed in high school lasted nearly ten years. I got through college. Got married. Had kids. Life moved forward. My hearing wasn't perfect but it was manageable — or so I told myself.

The Slow Fade — and the Breaking Point

Here's the thing about gradual hearing loss: you don't notice how bad it's gotten until you're really honest with yourself. You adapt. You compensate. You get good at reading faces, at positioning yourself in rooms, at laughing when other people laugh and hoping you guessed right about what was funny.

I got very good at nodding.

The breaking point came when I realized I was volunteering for things I had absolutely no business volunteering for — because I couldn't hear what I was signing up for. I'd agree to something, smile, walk away, and have no idea what I'd just committed to. That's when you know it's serious. When your hearing loss starts making decisions for you.

I went back to an ENT. He looked at my history, looked at my ears, and told me something I wasn't expecting: I had so much scar tissue built up from decades of surgeries and infections that another operation wasn't a good plan. The surgical path — the only path I'd ever known — was closed.

He recommended hearing aids.

"I was volunteering for things I had no business doing — because I couldn't hear what I was agreeing to."


The Drive Home

I was 33 years old when I walked into an audiologist's office and got properly tested for the first time as an adult. The audiogram confirmed what decades of infections and surgeries had done to my hearing. I was fitted for hearing aids that same visit.

I remember putting them in. I remember walking out to my car. I remember pulling onto the highway to drive home.

The moment everything changed

I could hear the cars passing me. Not just sense them — hear them. The sound of tires on pavement, the rush of air as they went by. I had driven on highways my entire life and I had never heard that before. I had to pull myself together.

That was the beginning of a different life. Not a perfect life — hearing aids aren't a cure, and they come with their own adjustments and frustrations. But a life where I could participate in group conversations for the first time in years. Where I could hear what my kids were muttering under their breath. Where I stopped dreading social situations.

I used to get frustrated and angry when I couldn't hear. Now I get frustrated and angry when I forget to put my hearing aids in. That's the difference. I genuinely cannot go through a day without them.


Why This Site Exists

When I started researching hearing aids — trying to understand the difference between OTC and prescription, why some cost $6,000 and others cost $99, whether the expensive ones were actually better — I kept running into the same problem. The reviews were written by people who had never worn a hearing aid. The recommendations were driven by affiliate commissions, not actual experience. The advice was generic at best and misleading at worst.

I built HearLifeRestored because I wanted a site that told the truth. Not from a clinical perspective — from the perspective of someone who has been living inside this problem since kindergarten. Someone who knows what it feels like to mishear, to miss out, to finally hear clearly for the first time.

Everything I recommend on this site is something I would genuinely point a friend toward. When I say a hearing aid performs well in noisy environments, it's because I know what that means from the inside. When I say the professional fitting matters, it's because I remember what driving home on that highway felt like.

My current setup: I wear Phonak Naída behind-the-ear hearing aids — prescription devices fitted by an audiologist. They're not cheap, and they're not for everyone. That's exactly why I cover the full range on this site, from $99 OTC options to the ZipHearing route for people who need professional care at a better price.

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